In These Tough Times, What Salary Do You Really Need to “Have It All”?

The Shifting Meaning of “Having It All” 

Not long ago, “having it all” might have meant home ownership, family holidays, private schooling, and a healthy superannuation balance. Today, with the cost of living at record highs and housing affordability stretched, many Australians are questioning whether those same goals are still realistic. 

So, what does “having it all” mean in 2025? For some, it’s financial independence and the ability to enjoy life’s luxuries without debt. For others, it’s simply the peace of mind that comes from covering expenses, saving steadily, and having something left over for your lifestyle. 

At Poole Advisory, we believe the answer isn’t just about a dollar figure. It’s about creating a financial strategy that matches your values and priorities, so your money supports the life you want to live. 

The Numbers Behind “Having It All” 

According to Finder’s 2024 Cost of Living Report, the average Australian household spent over $3,000 a month on essentials like housing, groceries, and utilities. Add in transport, insurance, childcare, and leisure, and the monthly total can easily exceed $5,000. 

Meanwhile, the Australian Bureau of Statistics reports that the average full-time weekly wage is around $1,900 (or just under $100,000 annually before tax). On paper, this seems enough to cover costs. But when you factor in mortgage repayments or rent in cities like Sydney or Melbourne, often $3,000 or more per month, many households find themselves squeezed. 

Quick Tip: Tools like the ASFA Retirement Standard can help you benchmark lifestyle costs both now and into retirement, so you’re not only planning for today’s expenses but also for tomorrow’s goals. 

 

Factors That Shape the “Magic Number” 

There’s no single salary that guarantees financial comfort. Instead, it depends on a mix of personal circumstances and lifestyle choices. Some of the key factors include: 

🔹 Location – Living in Sydney or Melbourne requires a very different budget compared to regional centres or smaller cities. 
🔹 Housing – Whether you’re renting, paying off a mortgage, or debt-free has the biggest impact on cash flow. 
🔹 Family Size – Childcare, schooling, and extra activities can easily double household costs. 
🔹 Lifestyle – Dining out, holidays, memberships, and subscriptions all add up. 
🔹 Financial Goals – Saving for retirement, an investment property, or early financial independence changes the target figure. 

Recent research highlights just how wide the gap has become between average earnings and what’s needed to comfortably buy a home in Australia’s largest cities. In Sydney, for example, households now require an income of around $280,000 to afford a median-priced house without being overstretched, according to realestate.com.au. That’s more than double the national average wage and shows why many Australians feel that “having it all” increasingly depends on how they define their financial priorities. 

So, What Salary Do You Need? 

The truth is, there’s no universal number that works for everyone. But research and household data suggest that for many Australians: 

  • Single professionals may need around $80,000–$100,000 to cover living costs and save steadily. 
  • Couples without children might aim for $150,000 combined, depending on housing. 
  • Families with children in capital cities often require $200,000 or more combined to comfortably “have it all.” 

But remember, these numbers are averages, not rules. What really matters is aligning your salary with a financial strategy that reflects your values. For some, that means prioritising home ownership. For others, it’s about travel, experiences, or retiring early.  

The Takeaway 

In these tough times, the question isn’t just “what salary do you need to have it all?” but rather, “what does having it all mean to you?” 

At Poole Advisory, we work with clients to define their goals, understand their spending, and build strategies that turn income into a life well lived, whether that’s financial freedom, family security, or the flexibility to enjoy more of what matters most in your life. 

 

For more information on how Poole Advisory can help you align your salary with your financial goals and create a tailored plan for success, get in touch today. 

 

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